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viveleschao59:
bullet-shot-heroes:
wildhaunt:
sauntervaguelydown:
I’m putting my foot down, if you don’t Know you’re flirting you’re not Flirting. Flirting requires knowledge and intent. If you’re not doing it on purpose you’re just bantering. I will die on this hill, yes.
I always feel like people think I’m flirting and that makes me feel unsafe. this makes me feel like I have some agency and that I can just kinda say, “no, flirting requires forethought. we’re just talking and I’m being nice.”
SAY THIS LOUDER
I feel obligated to share this because every time I acted with fucking common decency or was just nice to people, they would thought I was flirting and get mad when I wouldn’t say yes to a date or something.
I’m as aro as they can get and can’t romance to save my life so I sure as hell ain’t flirting.
Being nice is a thing.
viveleschao59:
bullet-shot-heroes:
wildhaunt:
sauntervaguelydown:
I’m putting my foot down, if you don’t Know you’re flirting you’re not Flirting. Flirting requires knowledge and intent. If you’re not doing it on purpose you’re just bantering. I will die on this hill, yes.
I always feel like people think I’m flirting and that makes me feel unsafe. this makes me feel like I have some agency and that I can just kinda say, “no, flirting requires forethought. we’re just talking and I’m being nice.”
SAY THIS LOUDER
I feel obligated to share this because every time I acted with fucking common decency or was just nice to people, they would thought I was flirting and get mad when I wouldn’t say yes to a date or something.
I’m as aro as they can get and can’t romance to save my life so I sure as hell ain’t flirting.
Being nice is a thing.
