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vaspider:
gendervoidkillua:
vaspider:
If someone could image describe this that would be great - my patience is G O N E.
[image description: two screenshots of a series of tweets by Symbols of Faith & Pride Kickstarter Live!vaspider, posted 21 april 2019. they read:
Things that happened today at a seder: I casually referred to myself as “queer” in reference to community and running NerdyKeppie, and a woman at the table gestured between me andadhocavenger and literally said “you need to explain this to me, then.”
Ok but no I don’t.
Cishet folx: NEVER DO THIS. EVER.
LGBTQ folx: you should know better but we still do this to each other.
No one ever “owes” you an explanation of their identity or relationships.
No, not even then.
No, not at Pride.
Not. Ever.
“But what if they’re at Pride and ‘look straight?’“
They may be trans. Or bi. Or ace. Or supporting family. Or NONE OF YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS.
“But it’s confusing me!”
That sounds like a you problem.
I am SO TIRED of being bi and non-binary and getting forever invalidated.
I owe you ZERO explanation.
In conclusion:
(image of spider wearing a shirt from their store, NerdyKeppie. it features a forward facing moose head, colored in a bi flag gradient. between the antlers are the words ‘I’M HERE. I’M QUEER. GET MOOSED TO IT.’)
/end id]
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vaspider:
gendervoidkillua:
vaspider:
If someone could image describe this that would be great - my patience is G O N E.
[image description: two screenshots of a series of tweets by Symbols of Faith & Pride Kickstarter Live!
vaspider, posted 21 april 2019. they read:Things that happened today at a seder: I casually referred to myself as “queer” in reference to community and running NerdyKeppie, and a woman at the table gestured between me and
adhocavenger and literally said “you need to explain this to me, then.”Ok but no I don’t.
Cishet folx: NEVER DO THIS. EVER.
LGBTQ folx: you should know better but we still do this to each other.
No one ever “owes” you an explanation of their identity or relationships.
No, not even then.
No, not at Pride.
Not. Ever.
“But what if they’re at Pride and ‘look straight?’“
They may be trans. Or bi. Or ace. Or supporting family. Or NONE OF YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS.
“But it’s confusing me!”
That sounds like a you problem.
I am SO TIRED of being bi and non-binary and getting forever invalidated.
I owe you ZERO explanation.
In conclusion:
(image of spider wearing a shirt from their store, NerdyKeppie. it features a forward facing moose head, colored in a bi flag gradient. between the antlers are the words ‘I’M HERE. I’M QUEER. GET MOOSED TO IT.’)
/end id]
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